Thanksgiving is a time to gather, give thanks, and share delicious food with family and friends. But hosting can be quite the feat! By breaking down tasks week by week, you can reduce stress and ensure you’re ready to celebrate. Here are our tips on how to host the best Thanksgiving ever.
Whether you host a large gathering or a dinner for your immediate family, as we do, getting organized ahead of time will make your life much easier!
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By planning and preparing week by week, you’ll create a warm, welcoming experience for everyone involved.
And for an even smoother process, use our free Thanksgiving Planner to keep track of tasks, stay organized, and be the best host ever.
First Week of November
Here are our best tips on what to do each week in November!
Look for the blue boxes that will give tips to use the planner!
Plan your Thanksgiving decor
Think about the ambiance you want to create, whether cozy, rustic, elegant, or classic. Decide on colors, themes, and any table settings or centerpieces.
Plan the guest list
Start by creating a list of who you’d like to invite and determining the final number of attendees. This will help you plan seating, tableware, and food quantities.
Use our Guest List Printable to write down names of family or friends you want to invite.
Plan the menu
Consider dietary restrictions and favorite dishes, then craft a menu that balances traditional Thanksgiving staples with any creative dishes you want to try.
Use the Thanksgiving Menu Plan Printable to write down all the foods you want to include.
Contact guests and assign dishes
If guests can bring a dish, assign items like appetizers, sides, or desserts to help ease your cooking load. Make sure everyone is clear on what they’re bringing.
Grab the Guest List Printable you already filled out and contact everyone on it. Write down what each person is bringing, and the number of adults and kids in their group.
Prepare a shopping list
With your menu in mind, create a comprehensive shopping list for food.
Use our Shopping List Printable. Notice that it is divided into perishable and non-perishable food items because you will shop for them at different times.
Shop for or make decor items you need
Get your decorations early to avoid last-minute stress. Whether you buy or DIY, having decor ready in advance is a time-saver.
Test new recipes
Trying out new dishes? Make them now to ensure they’re winners! This helps avoid surprises on Thanksgiving Day.
Start deep cleaning your home
Focus on areas guests will use most, like the living room, dining area, and guest bathroom. Deep cleaning now will make the final pre-party cleanup easier.
If you need help with this, check out our post, 7 Simple Ways to Declutter Before the Holidays Arrive.
At the end of each week, use the Thanksgiving Checklist Printable to mark off each item you completed!
Second Week of November
Plan the seating arrangement
Determine how many tables and chairs you need to seat everyone and borrow or buy extra tables/chairs if needed. If you’re hosting a large group, determine the best seating arrangement to keep the conversation flowing and ensure everyone feels comfortable. Make or buy place cards.
Take Inventory
Check tableware, utensils, and cookware to confirm you have everything needed. This is also a good time to ensure you have tablecloths, napkins, and serving pieces.
Shop For Needed items
If you’re missing any essentials after taking inventory, buy them now.
Stock up on the following items:
- disposable plates, cups, napkins, and utensils
- foil, freezer bags, and left-over containers
- alcohol and soft drinks
- items needed to prepare turkey depending on baking, smoking, or frying
Plan an hour-by-hour itinerary for Thanksgiving Day
Draft a schedule to keep you on track with cooking. Note times for reheating dishes, carving the turkey, and serving.
Use our Cooking Schedule Printable to write down each dish, which day you will prepare it, the appliance to use, and when to begin and end cooking it.
Third Week of November
Clean out the refrigerator
Make space for Thanksgiving ingredients and leftovers. This will also help you quickly see what’s on hand and what you need to buy.
Shop For non-perishable Items
Pick up canned goods, dry spices, frozen foods, and anything else that won’t spoil. This cuts down on shopping time during the week of Thanksgiving.
Use our Shopping List Printable for non-perishable grocery items.
Plan for guests
If anyone stays overnight, prepare their sleeping space, clean bedding, and stock the bathroom with essentials. This helps guests feel welcome and comfortable.
Use our Holiday Menu Plan Printable to plan and prepare other meals over the holiday weekend.
Thanksgiving week
Clean the house
Give your home a quick refresh, especially in areas where guests will be. This way, everything feels polished and ready.
Thaw turkey
If you have a frozen turkey, now’s the time to start thawing it in the fridge. A turkey takes about one day per 4-5 pounds to thaw safely.
Set the table(s)
Set up tables and chairs. Decorate and place linens, plates, glassware, and silverware to avoid last-minute rushing.
Shop for perishable grocery items
Finish your shopping by picking up fresh produce, dairy, and other perishable ingredients. Purchase ice and fresh flowers if needed.
Use the Shopping List Printable for perishable items.
Prepare food ahead
Prepare anything that can be made a day or two ahead. This might include pies, casseroles, or chopping vegetables for stuffing.
Refer to the Cooking Schedule Printable so you don’t forget anything!
Set up stations
Create stations for drinks, appetizers, and desserts to streamline the flow of guests and reduce kitchen congestion.
Thanksgiving Day
Cook the turkey
Start early, allowing for cooking and resting time. Be sure to check for doneness before serving.
Prepare side dishes
Coordinate oven and stove times for sides, so they’re ready when the turkey is done.
Reheat dishes prepared ahead of time
Reheat dishes you made earlier in the week, making sure everything is at the right temperature before serving.
Use the Thanksgiving Cooking Schedule Printable to stay on time!
After Thanksgiving Dinner
Put away food
Provide containers so guests can take some food home. Store remaining leftovers promptly to keep them fresh.
Address extra tables and chairs
Remove any extra seating and tables to help you regain space and start the post-dinner cleanup.
Pretreat table linen stains
Get out tough stains by pre-treating them before washing them. This can save your favorite linens for future holidays.
Wash and put away dishes
It’s time to clean! Make the cleanup easier by asking for help if anyone’s willing.
The Following Day
Pat yourself on the back for a job well done
You did it! Being the host for Thanksgiving is a big task, and you pulled it off beautifully.
Clean up anything left unattended from the day before
If there’s any lingering cleanup, tackle it now so you can enjoy the rest of your weekend.
Shop for Black Friday
If you’re planning to catch any Black Friday deals, it’s the perfect time to get a head start on holiday shopping.
Eat yummy left-overs
There’s no better reward than a leftover Thanksgiving sandwich or pie for breakfast!
Start preparing for Christmas
Are you as excited for Christmas as we are?
If so, here are some posts that might interest you!
- Our Thanksgiving Weekend Tradition That Kicks Off The Holidays
- 25 Traditions You Can Start Now To Make Meaningful Christmas Memories
- How to Get Organized For Holiday Entertaining
Print our free Thanksgiving planner
Get ready to host your best Thanksgiving yet with our free printable Thanksgiving Planner!
By signing up for our email list here, you’ll receive this handy guide packed with checklists and tips to keep you organized every step of the way.
From planning the menu to creating a cooking schedule, our planner makes it easy to stay on top of each task so you can relax and enjoy the holiday.
Plus, as a subscriber, you’ll be the first to get seasonal tips to organize, decorate, and DIY your way to a home you’ll love!
Sign up today and make Thanksgiving stress-free and memorable!
If you crave more inspiration for Thanksgiving today is your lucky day!
Amazing Creators Blog Hop
Fourteen of my friends, who are amazing creators, are joining me for a blog hop to share more Thanksgiving inspiration.
I hope you’ll take a few minutes to “hop” over to see what each of them is sharing!
Click on the links below to see all of the inspiring posts!
- Shop at Blu
- Cloches & Lavender
- Sweet Valley Acres
- Birdz of a Feather
- Exquisitely Unremarkable
- Gathered In The Kitchen
- An Organized Season -You are here
- Everyday Edits
- My Home and Travels
- Now Choose Life
- From Farmhouse to Florida
- At Home With Kristy
- The Stylish Maker
- Houzewize
- Bushel and a Pickle
Conclusion
Being the host for Thanksgiving can feel like a big responsibility, but with a little preparation and our step-by-step guide, you’ll be ready to create an unforgettable holiday.
Remember, the key to a successful Thanksgiving is planning ahead so you can enjoy the day as much as your guests.
From setting the table to serving delicious food, each detail will come together beautifully with the help of our Thanksgiving Planner.
We hope you’ll sign up for our email today and let our planner help you feel confident to host the best Thanksgiving ever!
Here’s to making memories, sharing gratitude, and having a stress-free, joy-filled celebration!
Blessings, Donna and Rich
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Kim says
What a great idea! I used to host Thanksgiving dinner for 30. It was a whole lot of work a ton of trial and error to find a routine. This would’ve been very helpful!! Pinning and saving my daugthers!
Donna Allen says
Thank you Kim and thanks for sharing! Hopefully your daughters will find it helpful! Happy Thanksgiving to you!
laura says
Hi Donna, great tips for planning for the big day! love the table!
Happy November 1st! xo laura in Colorado
Donna Allen says
Thanks Laura! I love Thanksgiving and I hope you have a great one!
Cindy says
Hi Donna, great post and information. I’m swooning over your transferware. I’m a lover of brown transferware as you know. The dishes are one of my favorites!
Donna Allen says
Thank you Cindy! I adore brown transferware and am collecting it slowly but surely! It’s not easy to find! Happy Thanksgiving!
sara allen says
Wow Donna; you’ve got everything covered for a stress-free Thanksgiving! Thanks for sharing your tips!
Donna Allen says
Thanks Sara! I like to break things down into easy steps so I can enjoy the day too!
Stephanie | Gathered In The Kitchen says
These are all such great tips! I host so many holiday meals…because we live out of state, and I know the stress that comes along with hosting! So I really appreciate all of these tips…plus, your table setting is gorgeous! I love how you layered it!
Donna Allen says
Thank you Stephanie! I love to organize and decorate and consider Thanksgiving such a special time of the year! I hope you and yours have a fabulous holiday!
Sharon says
Donna- I love all the practical advice with tips! We usually travel for Thanksgiving, but these tips will help me anytime I’m going to have people over! Happy Thanksgiving!
Donna Allen says
Hi Sharon! Thanks, you are right these tips could be used for any type of celebration! Wishing you safe travels and a Happy Thanksgiving!
Crystal says
Donna, my goodness, you are the Queen of Organization!!! Wow, I really need you in my life because I am quite the opposite lol. Your planning sheets are so well designed and thorough. I love it that you suggest that others bring a dish – I have never done that but love that idea!!! Next Thanksgiving I am giving that a try. Well done! Lovely post.
Donna Allen says
Hi Crystal! I love to organize stuff and hope this is helpful to you! The planner makes my day go so much smoother! Thanks and I hope you and your family have a Happy Thanksgiving!
CoCo says
Such a helpful resource, Donna. I love how you break everything down into manageable week by week steps too. It’s definitely the easiest way to tackle a big job like hosting Thanksgiving. Excited to share this on an upcoming From the Front Porch. I know it will be a big hit! Hugs, CoCo
Donna Allen says
Wow! I feel so honored you are going to share this post! I hope it’s as helpful to others as it is to me! I would be so stressed out without my planner! Thanks again my friend!
Carol Karl says
Wow! You have thought of everything! We don’t celebrate Thanksgiving here in New Zealand but we have a big Christmas party so I will be using your planner for that. Thanks for sharing.
Donna Allen says
You are welcome Carol! I have a planner for Christmas as well, it has extra sheets for gift lists and Christmas cards, so you might want to check it out too! Thanks for stopping by!
Sherry Calamia says
This is such a great detailed planner Donna! I will definitely use these tips to make life easier for Thanksgiving preparations! Thank you for this awesome planner!
Donna Allen says
So glad you enjoyed it Sherry! It is a lifesaver for me! I love having all my recipes and cooking schedule all in one place, otherwise I know I would forget something, lol! Here’s to a fabulous Thanksgiving!
Lyric Spencer says
OMG, I’m hosting this year and I’m so nervous. This checklist is extremely well thought out. Thank you!
Donna Allen says
Hi Lyric! That’s so exciting! I wish I would have had this planner the first year I hosted, it would have been so much easier! I hope it’s a help to you! You’ll have to let me know how it goes!! Take care!
Sue at Blu says
Donna, you have covered everything! Those turkey plates are perfect along with that amazing tablescape. Pinned.
Donna Allen says
Thanks a bunch Sue! I enjoy everything about Thanksgiving! Hope you have a great one!
Linda Johnston says
Morning Donna! Wonderful check list! I always print out the menu and then assign different tasks to family We have good time in the kitchen! This year I am not hosting. I might be at Christmas. The older kids have not decided yet what works best for them. We will all be together though. Happy November!
Donna Allen says
Hi Linda! Things do change as our children get older but I’m so happy you will be able to be together! That’s what makes this holiday so special! Thank you!
Kristy Mastrandonas says
Wow! I love your thoughtful, well-organized Thanksgiving Planner, Donna! You’ve thought of ever single detail! I also love your beautiful Thanksgiving decor and how you’ve styled everything…perfection!
Donna Allen says
Thank you so much Kristy! I’m so glad you enjoyed the post! Happy Thanksgiving to you!
Rosemary Palmer says
I will print off your planner and compare to my list. I’m a huge list maker, having it down to days and times. I would be lost without my lists. And they are on paper.
Donna Allen says
I agree Rosemary, I would be lost without lists too! I hope the planner is helpful to you! Here’s to a wonderful holiday!
Cara says
Donna, you are one of the most organized people I know, but you always do it in such a thoughtful way. Breaking it down week by week is so helpful. I have hosted Thanksgiving exactly once, and it was enough for me. Probably because I am always rushing around at the last minute, and realizing I have forgotten items I need. Guess it’s a good thing I have you to keep me on track. These days I am finding I am so forgetful and I really need to get on board with better organizing my life. Hope you are doing well, and thank you for the tips. Even though I am not hosting, I will be cooking up a storm.
Donna Allen says
You are so kind Cara! Thank you and I hope the sheets that pertain to cooking will help you in the kitchen! If I didn’t have them, I know I would forget stuff! Have fun cooking for this special day!
Beth says
Love ALL of these tips and decorating ideas, Donna! Thanks for sharing at the Creatively Crafty Linky Party, we will be featuring you this week! Creatively, Beth
Donna Allen says
Thanks so much Beth! I always look forward to your party and am so happy to be featured! See you there!